Your wife, your girlfriend again

Did you remember the days when you were still courting your wife?

Relive them to revive the old passion that once embodied your early or honeymoon stage of relationship.

 You do not need to think of wild ideas to have your wife fall in love with you again like before. You just have to remember how your wife first fell in love with you. If movies struck you together, then watch movies again. However, if you both did not fail to watch movies in your entire marriage life, then watch movies differently. You could maybe watch 3D movies or movies in another country or your favorite movie in theatric play or watch independent movies.

 Remember the old ways, but put a little appropriate twist on them especially if you still do them. Your old shared interest of playing tennis might not be doable anymore, but you can still play tennis together through Wii games.

 1, If you use to send your wife a love note or letter when you were still both unmarried, then send her one again. You can try new forms of love notes or letters like mobile phone short messages, online instant messages, short blogs, twitter messages, refrigerator notes, puzzle notes, palm notes. There are many forms but use those untried. Write them short, simple and sincere.

 2, Take your wife to a surprise dinner. Either be fine dinner in a romantic restaurant or cook her home dinner. If you often eat at home, eat out. If often out, eat in. It can however be any meal. It can be lunch, breakfast or even snack as long it is untried and will surprise her.

 Though most women love surprises, some do not. So instead of a surprise meal, cook a meal for your wife or bring a meal to her workplace. Do or help her in some of her work or chores. Give her a break. Plan a travel together to another town or city or country, to the beach or mountain resort. You can shop her clothes and accessories. You can take her to spa or massage her yourself. Gently massage her head, neck, back, feet, leg, arm, hand or where body pain is often.

 They are not just surprises and breaks for your wife, but more time together. These shared moments will eventually take you back together to your early stages of relationship and refresh your marriage life. You can cherish about all the good things in life together. Then talk new plans, goals and dreams to spark another exciting life.

 I-love-you and other endearments are still not out. So, continue to say them. What we often miss in long-term relationship or marriage life is appreciating our partner or wife. Appreciate even the small good acts of your partner or wife like waking you up in the morning. Say your gratitude sweet with sincere gestures. Touch her hand or kiss her just as you used to do when she was still your girlfriend. Of course, have a spontaneous sex. The sweeter the acts, the better.