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Say sorry forever

October 15, 2009 by admin  
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work19Sorry is underrated, but necessary. It is underrated because it is a regular word for apology, a misused word to escape arguments, a quick solution for reconciliation and a raw confession for committed sins. It is necessary not only because it rebuilds relationship, but also changes people.

What makes sorry a real sorry? Is it just a word? Can it just be acted? Should it be a mix of words and actions?

Well, any communication will only be effective if it is a mix of words and actions. A plain word of sorry is not a real sorry. An apologetic action like stopping a misdeed may be a real sorry, but will still stir doubts if sorry is unsaid.

When do you sincerely say sorry and how?

A real sorry starts even before you say sorry. It starts when you recognize your misdeed. Confessing your misdeed does not even complete a real sorry. Eye contact and warm hug do not plainly express sincerity in confession. Sincerity comes in acting your apology or stopping your misdeed. That action should be lasting. If you repeat the misdeed, then you were eventually not sorry. A sorry however must make someone forget and forgive your misdeeds.

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