Really takes two to tango
Rebuilding a relationship is hard.
It is even harder than building one. Building a relationship is in fact the easiest because it is when couples highly possess passion. It is in this early or “honeymoon” stage where almost all elements of an almost perfect relationship are present.
Passion gradually fades as relationships go through time. Without or less of passion, sustaining and rebuilding any relationship really becomes effortful. Then the hard part starts.
Nothing is really easy in pursuing extraordinary things especially relationships. Ironically, it is not as hard as we thought. It does not even require rocket science, only common sense and conscious effort.
It certainly will require commitment. Commitment must however not be a single effort, but shared by two people sharing the relationship. One just cannot rebuild a relationship even if one is highly committed. A relationship is not a relationship if it is only built by one person.
Commitment alone is not enough, but it takes commitment to do more than commitment. Couples should together commit to do the “basic” in building a relationship to rebuild their relationship. Yes! The common sense of rebuilding relationship is basic. Couples should consciously retrace how they built their relationship. They should re-track their moments during the honeymoon stage, especially the happy ones. They should remember the passion that once they highly shared when they started as lovers and better as friends.
1, How did the couple spend time before?
2, How did the couple have fun?
3, How did they have good sex?
4, How did they talk?
5, How did they solve conflicts especially the critical ones?
6, Were there surprises?
7, What were the small joys and appreciative acts?
Couples should not re-invest on all basic building blocks of their relationship, as some are not presently applicable anymore. People and time change. Mountain climbing might not be doable anymore to seniors. Couples might not see each other daily anymore because they work apart every weekday. They might be incapable of having regular good sex anymore because of impotency. Conflicts might not concern couples anymore, but their children or grandchildren.
Forms will certainly be different but the essence of the building blocks is same. This is where creativity is needed to improve and rebuild the relationship. The solutions are sure common sense but they need modifications to match with the changing environment.
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