Say sorry forever
Sorry is underrated, but necessary. It is underrated because it is a regular word for apology, a misused word to escape arguments, a quick solution for reconciliation and a raw confession for committed sins. It is necessary not only because it rebuilds relationship, but also changes people.
What makes sorry a real sorry? Is it [...]
Pain, Purpose, Sacrifice, NO Pain
There is a saying, “no pain, no gain.”
I agree.
Pain makes us a better person. Running long distance is a pain, but when you regularly live with it, running becomes less painful. As you regularly run, you become a better person. You run more miles and faster. You gain more endurance. You become healthier. [...]
MR. and MRS. right…and wrong
There is no Mr. and Mrs. Right, but there must be Mr. and Mrs. Right and Wrong. Your spouse is literally your other half. He/she is the person who completes you while you complete him/her. He/she attracted you because he/she has the qualities that you looked for and vice versa.
Your parents, experience, environment, even genes [...]
Rebuilding your marriage
To recover from a crisis and create a healthy and happy marriage, you need to think not in terms of a marriage in trouble, but the marriage you want.
When you first got married, what did you expect from your marriage? Is it all you thought it would be? If you could customize your marriage, what [...]
Relationships are gold so as time
Humans are social beings. We do not and cannot live alone. We should relate with other people. Even monks, priests, nuns and singles maintain relationships. However, not with a lover or partner or spouse, they relate with and live through with their friends, families and communities. Human relationships make people happy and that is why [...]
Gift, a fix to marriage
Gifts are never out in any relationship.
They are always part in all events of a relationship, from courtship to surprises, anniversary and rebuilding marriages. They are living proofs of man’s nature of giving and generosity. Historically, gifts are often offerings to the deities, kings and women. They are either forms of adoration, worship, gratitude, [...]
Your wife, your girlfriend again
Did you remember the days when you were still courting your wife?
Relive them to revive the old passion that once embodied your early or honeymoon stage of relationship.
You do not need to think of wild ideas to have your wife fall in love with you again like before. You just have to remember how [...]
ANGER
Anger management is the first right step to conflict resolution.
If you are successful in dealing anger, then you will likely resolve any conflict in relationships. If you are also successful in dealing anger of your partner, then you will most likely sustain your relationship.
Anger is often misunderstood and not bad at all. Anger [...]
Conflict in, conflict out
Bad as it is, conflict is a fixed part of society.
It does not only destroy, but builds and improves human relationships. Conflicts rooted from simple and complex causes. They are either caused by misinformation or differences in values and interests or structural flaws or a mix of the three.
Conflicts are undeniably damaging [...]
Talk is never cheap and action are never silent
Communication has always been essential in human relationship. It either builds or destroys relationships. It more often builds and rebuilds relationship because it bridges not only similarities but differences. Communication, in any form, connects us all. Without it, the world would be silent, humanity would not evolve through time and there would be no human [...]
