Exploring The Extraordinary In The Ordinary.
Human lives today have become more and more complex. With so many responsibilities that are required of us, we tend to make things easy by organizing our busy lives. Organizing leads you to make schedules and routines to avoid confusion and to make things systematic as you go through the day. This routine you stick [...]
Accepting The Differences.
March 7, 2010 by admin
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The union of two different individuals in marriage has different approaches and views on any life situation. This difference often times leads to conflicts, and if not handled properly… such difference might become a hindrance to a happy marriage. Being different is normal. Men and women are different, biologically, mentally, and emotionally. Being raised from [...]
Being Funny In Any Way
March 2, 2010 by admin
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People often think that when entering marriage, you shift your life immediately to serious mode. In times of crisis and arguments, you find yourself saying, “Let us be adults on this,” for settling a problem in a mature way. Being serious has its reward. It sorts out discussion of a disagreement and can give a [...]
The Cheat and the Cheated
February 22, 2010 by admin
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Have you seen the TV episode, Cheaters? The show investigates cheats upon one of the partner’s request. The TV host, few TV production cameraman, and private investigators rigidly follo w the cheating experience. They record all events in video and audio. They then show the records and ask confirmation to the person who requested investigation. [...]
Does marriage counseling work?
Yes! Marriage counseling works. However, is seeking professional marriage counseling necessary?
Some people would recommend marriage counseling. Most often advise marriage counseling is not necessary.
What is indeed marriage counseling?
How does marriage counseling work?
Most urge to discuss marital problems with the people directly involved in the problem. The advice is definitely correct. You and [...]
Commitment and Love are marriage builders.
February 14, 2010 by admin
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Main marriage builders are commitment and love. They always go together. They are two sides of a coin, different but one. They are like inseparable twins; a pair of wings that becomes useless when one is gone. Without commitment, love could not keep marriage longer. Without love, commitment could not make marriage happier.
Commitment [...]
Openness and honesty.
February 9, 2010 by admin
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Like love and commitment, they always go together. They are Siamese twins in effective communication for married life. With openness alone, communication is not authentic. With honesty alone, communication is limited.
You cannot simply be open if you are dishonest.
You cannot also be honest if you are not open.
You have to be both for marital [...]
No Sex, No Marriage
Remember the earlier days when you and your spouse had sex almost every day—ok, every day. A gentle and simple touch can immediately spark sexual attraction. A simple kiss could instantly end you and your spouse in the bed, despite the day stress.
You even made every sex extra special, kinky, and romantic.
You and your spouse [...]
Responsible Sex in Marriage
Sex, they say, is the highest expression of love.
Is it?
What is sex in marriage?
Is sex still the highest expression of love in marriage?
What is the purpose of sex in marriage?
Is sexless marriage a no-marriage status?
Yes! Sex is indeed the highest expression of love. It is the highest form of love in marriage because [...]
Effort to Support
February 1, 2010 by admin
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They say, “Every man’s success is a woman in his side.” True, but also true in reverse. Support matters because it boosts your spouse’s confidence.
A simple pat on his/her back can be an act of support. Encouraging words are more enforcing. You can also support your spouse by giving him/her time and space, needed to [...]



