Say sorry forever
Sorry is underrated, but necessary. It is underrated because it is a regular word for apology, a misused word to escape arguments, a quick solution for reconciliation and a raw confession for committed sins. It is necessary not only because it rebuilds relationship, but also changes people.
What makes sorry a real sorry? Is it [...]
Pain, Purpose, Sacrifice, NO Pain
There is a saying, “no pain, no gain.”
I agree.
Pain makes us a better person. Running long distance is a pain, but when you regularly live with it, running becomes less painful. As you regularly run, you become a better person. You run more miles and faster. You gain more endurance. You become healthier. [...]
MR. and MRS. right…and wrong
There is no Mr. and Mrs. Right, but there must be Mr. and Mrs. Right and Wrong. Your spouse is literally your other half. He/she is the person who completes you while you complete him/her. He/she attracted you because he/she has the qualities that you looked for and vice versa.
Your parents, experience, environment, even genes [...]
Rebuilding your marriage
To recover from a crisis and create a healthy and happy marriage, you need to think not in terms of a marriage in trouble, but the marriage you want.
When you first got married, what did you expect from your marriage? Is it all you thought it would be? If you could customize your marriage, what [...]
Fidelity
October 15, 2009 by admin
Filed under All, Marriage Test
A good marriage doesn’t happen automatically. It involves trust, commitment, acceptance, and mutual respect bonded together with love. Spouses should set themselves apart from all others, and give themselves exclusively to each other. Partners, who have pledged to love each other ’till death do us part,’ must work at it actively and continuously. There is [...]
Giving patterns
October 15, 2009 by admin
Filed under All, Marriage Test
The gift that comes unexpectedly both surprises and makes the receiver ecstatic with joy. Their happiness is the priceless gift that the giver receives in return.
Rate yourself on giving to your spouse in each category below on a scale from 1-10. Add your score and compare it with the assessment scale below.
Rate Your Giving Patterns:
Do [...]
Knowledge of your spouse
October 15, 2009 by admin
Filed under All, Marriage Test
A. What is your spouse’s favorite?
Color, place to visit, restaurant, food, dish, desert, holiday, best friend, relative, clothing store, day of the week, actor, movie, way to make love, author, book(s), sports, sports hero, sports team, hobby, topics of discussion, artist, musician,TV Show, Animal/pet, Music, Way to relax.
B. What size does your spouse wear? Blouse/shirt, skirt/pants, dress, [...]
Prioritize your marriage
October 15, 2009 by admin
Filed under All, Marriage Test
In order to succeed in marriage, you need to learn an important skill – “put love first”. Your relationship with your spouse needs to become the highest priority in your life.
The quality of love and the duration of a relationship are in direct proportion to the depth of the commitment by both people to [...]
Relationships are gold so as time
Humans are social beings. We do not and cannot live alone. We should relate with other people. Even monks, priests, nuns and singles maintain relationships. However, not with a lover or partner or spouse, they relate with and live through with their friends, families and communities. Human relationships make people happy and that is why [...]
Gift, a fix to marriage
Gifts are never out in any relationship.
They are always part in all events of a relationship, from courtship to surprises, anniversary and rebuilding marriages. They are living proofs of man’s nature of giving and generosity. Historically, gifts are often offerings to the deities, kings and women. They are either forms of adoration, worship, gratitude, [...]
